Thursday, November 15, 2018

Where All Are Dignified And Honored

Old Post Chapel, Ft. Myer


Yesterday, November 14, I was at Arlington National Cemetery attending a funeral service for U.S. Army corporal Joseph Spagnoli, 93, a World War II veteran, the father of a good friend of mine. I’ve been to funerals at Arlington before—some funerals for friends or colleagues, one funeral for my own father. Some of the funerals drew national attention and incorporated the full-honors trappings accorded veterans of high rank, lofty political office, or ultimate sacrifice on the battlefield. Most, however, were quiet affairs, like the one I attended yesterday.

Joe Spagnoli, laid to rest in one of Arlington's columbarium niches, was an Army corporal during the war. He was drafted at age 18, trained to be a radio operator, and served for three years in Burma and China as what can best be described as a lookout—a watcher tracking the movements of Japanese forces, and radioing headquarters with his observations. Unlike many soldiers, sailors, airmen and Marines of his time, Joe's duty was virtually solitary, isolated, far from supply lines, hot chow, and reinforcements. He received three bronze battle stars for his service.

After the war, the young veteran returned to Illinois, took on the mission of becoming an educator, received his Ph.D, and, for several decades, dedicated his life to teaching and improving schools systems in Illinois and Michigan. Like so many veterans of wars past and wars present, Joseph Spagnoli never stopped helping his fellow citizens—taking off one uniform of service to country and putting on the uniform of dedicated citizen, still in service to his community and country.

I mention the Joe Spagnoli's background—which is much fuller than I have summed up—to note that veterans interred or inurned at Arlington are drawn to service—either as draftees or volunteers—from all walks of life, from all ethnicities and skin tones, representing myriad religious beliefs (or none), from big cities, modest townships, island territories, or rolling farmlands. It is fair to say there could be no greater cross section of America’s best and beloved citizens than those who repose in eternal rest across Arlington’s sweeping hills and columbaria.

What always strikes me as emblematic of any memorial service at Arlington is the absolute “fairness” of care and dignity accorded to every man or woman laid to rest there. From the moment a family member, friend, or colleague of the veteran enters the Old Post Chapel on Ft. Myer, the soldiers, chaplains, and staff create an environment of trust and dignity—assuring one and all that the United States military is receiving one of their own into their care, and, regardless of rank or station, the veteran being honored is a coequal in grateful admiration with all of his or her peers who have been laid to rest before.

The honor guard bearing the casket or urn, clicks down the Chapel aisle with atomic-clock precision, escorting the remains of their comrade with no variation in the respect they show a corporal, a sergeant, a captain, a colonel, a general, an admiral…or a president; all are brothers and sisters in their sight. 

The chaplains are invariably warm, comforting, and genuinely interested in the man or woman over whom they will pray, about whom they will speak, and for whom they will mourn as all soldiers do for their fallen comrades. At the service I attended yesterday, the chaplain, an Army captain, was so gracious and her attention to my friend and his family, and her remarks about Joe Spagnoli, were heartfelt, as if she had known him all along.

At the end of the service, as corporal Spagnoli's cremains were escorted out to the plaza in front of the chapel, the waiting honor guard came to attention and received the urn and escorted the veteran to his final resting place with all the military bearing of a state funeral, even though our party numbered only a dozen members of family and friends.

At the columbarium, we assembled beneath a green canvas rain cover, and watched as Joe's flag was properly unfolded and held tightly over him. Fifty yards away, the firing team readied their rifles, and three volleys of seven shots each cracked into the grey overcast, the echoes of the salute intensified by the stone walls of the columbaria surrounding us. Before those echoes faded, a bugler, off to our left, played Taps.

With the same crispness of the rifle shots, the honor guard refolded the flag, each turn and tautly-pulled fold just as beautifully, carefully, executed as if the veteran beneath the Colors had been Chief of Staff of the Army. The honor guard’s senior sergeant cradled the flag and, kneeling, offered it to yet another World War II widow, his words of comfort and thanks for her ears only.

It was short and thought-filled walk to the area of the columbarium where corporal/Dr. Spagnoli would be placed in his niche—a location high enough that his tall son would have to reach up to press the urn into its stone interior. For me, the moment was all the more poignant because my father and mother rested in a similar niche in another part of the columbarium not far from the corporal.

With a final prayer, the tribute to Joseph Spagnoli--soldier, veteran, and citizen, a father, grandfather, a husband, a friend and an educator--was complete; another member of the Greatest Generation was enshrined with honor, as are all veterans who rest at Arlington.

I urge every American who can travel to Washington to visit Arlington National Cemetery. If you don’t know by now, Arlington is the final place of fairness, equality, unalloyed dignity, and unquestioned decency for remains of the nation’s fallen servicemen and women. The ceremonies may be large or small, televised or intimate, filled with pageantry or carried out quietly, but in every case, the veteran who will ultimately lie beneath the grass, or behind a marble plaque, is treated with equal respect and sureness of mission by his or her uniformed colleagues—a cadre of honor for all who served.

It is important that I add this: The Department of Veterans Affairs—separate from the Military District of Washington which oversees Arlington—proudly maintains 136 National Cemeteries across the country. Each VA cemetery is a place of great beauty and dignified and honor-filled care for millions of our fellow citizens who served in uniform. 

In the years I was a VA employee, and during my service on the House and Senate Veterans Affairs Committees, I had the privilege to visit many VA cemeteries, and at each one there was a loving and giving team of men and women who were no less committed to their mission than are the leadership, staff, and honor guards at Arlington.

Some National Cemeteries are absolutely breathtaking in their design and sweeping vistas; others are less expansive, and often close to major metropolitan sprawl. But in all cases, as at Arlington, honor and dignity are the bywords of those who care for our nation’s very best. Thank you, Corporal Spagnoli, for your service. 

   

Tuesday, October 30, 2018

We Must, And We Can, Put The Pin Back Into The Trumpian Grenade


It’s a classic war movie scene: in the heat of battle, a soldier pulls a pin from a grenade and flings it over a wall, or into an enemy bunker, and, a few seconds later, “Wham!” the grenade explodes, the audience cheers, and the good guys advance. There are also other classic war movie scenes in which some baby-faced recruit, still learning how to pull pins and throw grenades, pulls the pin, but drops the grenade, now with fuse smoking, the audience cringes, and everyone runs. “Wham!” And, there is the classic war movie scene where, having pulled the pin, the recruit freezes…grenade in hand…and the (always) gruff range safety sergeant calmly puts a pin back into the grenade, the recruit faints, the audience laughs, and there is no “Wham!” 

These scenarios are simplified, but they are familiar enough to elicit knowing nods from civilians and military veterans alike. Unlike most civilians, though, veterans and active-duty servicemen and women know that it is possible to put a pin back in a grenade only if the safety lever (or spoon or pan) has not fallen off. The lever, held in place by the pin, is the only thing between “Wham!” and “Not Wham!” once the pin has been pulled. “Once the pin is pulled, Mr. Grenade is not your friend,” is a training mantra best remembered.

Right now, Americans are in a room with a grenade with the pin pulled, but the safety lever has yet to fall off. In the room are everyday folks who worry about health care, job security and equity, national security, international stability, immigration, human rights, civil rights, education, infrastructure, clear air and clean water, national parks, unbiased justice, and many more issues that must be addressed by a leader who can demonstrate intelligence, compassion, a sense of history, fairness, and humility. We have had such leaders in the past—one need only to read Doris Kearns Goodwin’s latest book, Leadership in Turbulent Times, to find such ennobling traits among former presidents.

We are once again in turbulent times, but the president we have now is holding a grenade designed to rip apart our founding documents and more than 200 years of laws and social contracts protecting all of us from the chaos of tyranny.

The grenade of usurpation, division, deception, and mistrust is in Donald Trump’s hand. The safety lever, affixed to the grenade by our Founders in anticipation of a tyrannical leader, is the Constitution. The pin is common sense. Under Trump's sweaty, unsteady, palm lie the Bill of Rights and all the Amendments that hold us together, Rights and Amendments he believes he can circumvent (the Fourteenth), hype and misinterpret (the Second), or debase and discredit (the First). The rest of the Constitution, also in his grip, is slowly inching off the fuse, and once it falls away, all we embrace as a free society will fall away with it.

Two things stand between an unwelcome tension and total chaos: the pin of common sense (which was pulled by the Electoral College two years ago), and the safety lever of the Constitution. The anxiety many of us feel today in the final week before the mid-term elections stems, I think, from not being certain that the pin of common sense, which looks an awful lot like a voting ballot, will be reinserted fully into the Trumpian fragmentation grenade. What I do know for certain is that we must put that pin back in. 


With every passing day—with every passing hour of presidential tweeting and rally bombasts—Trump is releasing his grip on the safety lever. Today’s news that the president is seriously considering an Executive Order to nullify the birthright provision of the Fourteenth Amendment—even if his desire is thwarted ultimately by Congress and/or the courts—should send shivers down the spines of all citizens. He will not be satisfied until he has shredded every ethical, moral, and social norm holding the fabric or our nation together.

Finding the grenade’s pin is a relatively easy task. If you are a thoughtful, concerned, pro-active, open-minded American of voting age, you are part of that pin that was jerked crudely out of the safety lever in 2016. As for inserting the pin, when you vote (not if, but when), you will join with others to form a pin long enough to once again secure the safety lever. Keep in mind, a short pin won’t do; only a long pin, formed from the votes of tens of millions of Americans who want to take the grenade out of the president’s hand, will achieve the desired “Not Wham!” result.

We are, collectively, the pin of common sense that must be reinserted to buy us time to wrest the grenade of Democracy’s destruction from Mr. Trump’s control. Once taken from him, it must be defused and its explosive innards discarded, its exterior shell melted down, never to be reassembled. Vote next Tuesday; put the pin back in its rightful and safe place.